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Light and dark anger

Jul 14, 20232 min read

2019-07-22

  • I thought Anger is a form of self-pity.

  • On the other hand, one friend believes “Anger is a driving force

  • And the friend is using his anger as a driving force to produce results.

  • I mean, there is good in anger.

  • What is the difference between good anger and bad anger?

    • Parable of the Heat

    • Bright, sunny, dry, dry, dry, hot.

    • Dark, cloudy, damp, dank, and hot.

    • Both are “hot,” but the sensation you get is much different.

    • Good anger resembles the former.

    • Some of the bad anger resembles the latter.

      • Some bad angst not so bad.

    • Parable of the Steam Engine

    • The friend, who is motivated by anger, believes he can “change” the object of his anger

      • Meaning “one can ameliorate what is the object of one’s anger,” not “make something else the object of one’s anger.”

    • So anger is the driving force that creates “action to change”.

    • Zimmering people believe that they cannot “change” the object of their anger.

      • We’re not discussing here whether it can or cannot actually be changed, we’re just talking about personal perception.
      • The belief that “I can’t change it” is formed by the actual experience of “I can’t change it”.

    • This is like [steam engine

      • When heat is applied, water turns into steam, creating pressure.
      • When this pressure is properly directed, power can be produced, which is the steam engine.
      • On the other hand, if there is no place for pressure to escape, it will damage the kettle
        • Worst case scenario, it bursts.
      • The metaphor of “degassing”
        • Pressure drops as heightened pressure sputters out.
        • The goal is to reduce pressure, so I’m not thinking about whether or not that spewed force will be useful motive power.
        • It’s easier to just let it blow out than to use it as a power source, so it flows that way.

relevance - Three kinds of anger and usefulness - Anger at what can be changed

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