If you canât get out of your infantile senses, youâre in an incorrect cycle.
I would like to describe this âinfantile sensationâ with a little more resolution.
Infants typically receive a positive stroke for every action Sometimes negative strokes, such as a scolding, but rarely ignored.
On the other hand, this is clearly an outlier
- The average time available to others is less than one second. So it is no surprise that almost all people do not react positively or negatively to themselves
These two cognitive states need to shift at some point, but there are people who have not shifted
- infantile Iâve heard the term âinfantile universalism,â but it just doesnât seem right.
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He wants praise and acts like an attention-seeking toddler. - In my 50s, I canât take compliments, so Iâm trying to get approval. One person, A, was positively commented by another person, B, about his conduct. However, A did not like some of the word choices in Bâs statement and complained about it on social media. From the standpoint of not knowing much about either A or B, this behavior of A seems like an infant saying, âI donât like it unless you praise me with expressions that make me feel good. - Arrogance in ordering praise It is a normal state of affairs that there is no reaction to what you write. It is natural that there is no reaction to what you write because even Buddha did so, and it is hubris to think that there should be a reaction, or an infantile sense that âit is natural for people around you to pay attention to youâ. - Social Triggers and Approval Dependence An only child toddler usually gets a lot of attention from his parents, and when he goes to a family gathering or something, he expects that the other adults should naturally pay attention to him, but he feels uncomfortable when the adults leave him alone and talk among themselves, so he does bad things on purpose to get their attention. - Not old people, but human bugs.
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