One person, A, was positively commented by another person, B, about his deeds. However, A did not like the word choice of some of B’s statements and complained about it on social networking sites.
From the standpoint of not knowing much about either A or B, this behavior of A looks like an infant saying, “I don’t like it if you don’t compliment me with expressions that make me feel good.
I wrote this here because I did not feel the urge to change my behavior by telling Mr. A on the spot, “Your statement, it’s disgusting.
- arrogance
- Evaluation by others
- It doesn’t feel like aging population combined with the elderly, it doesn’t make you feel “old”.
This page is auto-translated from /nishio/ほめ方に注文をつける傲慢 using DeepL. If you looks something interesting but the auto-translated English is not good enough to understand it, feel free to let me know at @nishio_en. I’m very happy to spread my thought to non-Japanese readers.