It is unclear whether the ādraw or pull something toward oneself (e.g. chair)ā of good luck, which is often mentioned in spiritual contexts, is real, but Attraction of bad luck is.
mhl_bluewind There are people who are unlucky, and through no fault of their own, all kinds of bad things happen to them.
But close observation shows that they are making choices that are a bit uncomfortable in their decision making, and this seems to indirectly attract bad things to them. mhl_bluewind Itās little decisions like that that make your life squishy by a few centimeters and ultimately doom you to ābad luckā. ā¦
concrete example [āOnce you start a skim job, itās a hell you canāt stop,ā 52-year-old man complains of ādissatisfactionā with Timeyās system (Toyo Keizai Online) - Yahoo! News https://news.yahoo.co.jp/articles/4 bdc0eaaf41bda6b67cc48175b35137b894f6620]
mhl_bluewind >52-year-old man complains of āfrustrationā with Timieās system. These unlucky people, after all, their choices are a little strange.
For example, this one, āBut Shingo said, āI didnāt inquire about it because I was in an accident on my way home and (was) not sure if I was covered. I ended up paying for all my medical expenses out of my own pocket.ā
mhl_bluewind So is this.
āDid the temporary staffing agency pinch part of the wages? Even if not, when the employment relationship is complicated, the responsibility tends to be ambiguous. When I asked if he had checked with Timey, Shingo shook his head, saying, āI donāt know. I didnāt ask because I didnāt want to incur Timmyās wrath.ā
Count_Down_000 In people who say, āI donāt know how other people feel. āI donāt know either, itās hard to guess,ā he said, but eventually he realized something. For some reason, a certain number of people admire psychopaths and are proud to think that they are one too. ā A sentence you read a few dozen seconds ago - you donāt understand what you heard, so you donāt understand the situation, let alone others. Count_Down_000 When dealing with humans, if you continue to communicate without understanding what the other person is saying, the other person may become angry, or in some cases, the other person may say something directly to you. In some cases, the other person may tell you directly. āApparently, I donāt understand other peopleās feelings,ā I guess. In addition, things other than interpersonal problems are not going well, but the environment does not speak for itself, so they consider it as ābad luckā and are always talking about it.
Count_Down_000 āI donāt know how other people feelā - and at the same time, āIām the unlucky oneā was often the phrase they used. Then the upstream element of the two factors is the bottleneck? I thought, in many cases I didnāt understand what I read or heard just before I read or heard it. Or perhaps you recognize poor comprehension as bad luck ā¦
Count_Down_000 āToo much bad luck, he says. āBut bad things happen when the situation is similar.
But others have not had ābad luckā in the same situation. is not luck, but reproducibility. Strange and long term, there are a lot of people who donāt listen to advice and donāt see the warning signs. Thatās because there is a high probability that a bad case will happen only to that person.
Count_Down_000 I have bad luck! Iāve heard people say that they have habits that are actually highly repeatable. Iāve noticed that Iāve been working with people who say, āI get tangled up with strange old men and suddenly get angry with them, When I meet my friendsā¦ ā Doors ā Elevator ā Escalators Iāve noticed that they stop and talk for a long time at the boarding gates - even at the exit for getting off the train, etc. Count_Down_000 I think itās bad luck when I only hear āI get tangled up with strange old men or suddenly get angryā. But when we actually get our act together, weāre in a public space with strangers, and weāre not afraid to stop even at key points of human movement. āThatās right. I guess he is left thinking āI am unluckyā because he never changes his mind even after I point it out to him.
select a situation where no dice are to be rolled.
VMxmfDbt3wEjDFZ When I see people play ābad luckā in certain games, I realize that they play appropriately. Lucky players choose situations where they donāt have to roll the dice, and when they do roll the dice, a 3 or 4 or better makes for a good situation! But unlucky players tend to make choices that leave almost all options to the 6 of dice!
kis There was a time when the expression āpeople who donāt use their blinkersā was popular among my friends and I. We used to talk about how people who donāt use their blinkers must look like they are in the wrong, like āIām turning to change lanes and they wonāt let me inā or āIām turning and a car pulls in. I have talked about how people who donāt use their blinkers seem to think the people around them are in the wrong, like āIām trying to change lanes and they wonāt let me inā or āIām turning and a car pulls inā. kis Some people put out their blinker after starting to turn, but the blinker does not indicate that you are turning, it indicates that you are about to turn. It is important to put it out before stepping on the brake. This is the same for hazards. They do not indicate that you are stopped, but that you are going to stop.
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