An internet meme that spread along with the frames of the manga “Bleach”. Strong words make you look weak.
A person who lacks confidence in his/her own assertiveness makes himself/herself appear strong by using strong words, but contrary to his/her intention, those around him perceive him as a “weak person who is trying to be strong.
I believe that people use strong words when they are talking to themselves. In other words, self-reflection. Strong words are backed by “confidence,” and that confidence is usually based on “what I saw in myself. Therefore, when you strongly deny or affirm someone, you are “unconsciously talking about yourself” in many cases. The presence of the listener is just for show. https://twitter.com/taichinakaj/status/1319165516670353410
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