lad_tripnote If you listen properly to people who suffer from low self-assurance, itā€™s more often a case of ā€œstrong self-denial,ā€ so I think the prognosis is better if you hit them with groundless denial rather than comforting them with groundless affirmation.

lad_tripnote I guess Iā€™m honestly not very good at this word myself because I keep talking about ā€œself-affirmationā€.

keiictirow I see what you mean, but on the other hand, doesnā€™t it make a dent when you hit denial? Is it my own fault for hitting it?

I will think about it. Thank you for the post, which gives me a hint for introspection. Appreciate it.


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