When you expect something and itâs not what you expected, itâs not that thatâs bad, itâs you with the âfalse expectationâ.
Itâs not let-down, but Iâm disappointment.
To blurt out that something was a disappointment is to double down on the shame of having had false expectations and now attributing that error to others instead of to yourself.
relevance - I donât expect others to do it. - Iâm disappointed. - Perspectives of those who are told
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