- 1: dependence
- Every human being goes through a child state.
- Growing up with help from adults around you
- Often becomes a compulsion due to differences in body size.
- 2: independence
- As they grow older, they reject help.
- Can do it alone, hide weaknesses.
- Repulsion is also strong, especially when raised in a coercive environment.
- 3: interdependence
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A win-win deal between equal adults
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A relationship in which you fill in the other person’s weaknesses, and in return, the other person fills in your weaknesses.
- [Share the vulnerability.
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Dependence → Independence → Interdependence was also discussed in [Seven Habits
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- The story of children being affected by their size difference from adults was also discussed in [Adlerian psychology
- I thought the case of Pride makes us throw away our options. was caused by stopping at step 2.
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