from [/villagepump/ about the relationship between being an idiot and asking questions and imposter syndrome](https://scrapbox.io/villagepump/ about the relationship between being an idiot and asking questions and imposter syndrome). /villagepump/inajob.icon

/villagepump/nishio.icon - The relationship between being an idiot and asking questions and Imposter Syndrome. - [[imposter syndrome]] : He thinks he is held in high esteem. - People who can't be assholes and ask questions: afraid of being devalued. - If people with Imposter Syndrome really think that the problem is that they are held in high regard, then they can be assholes and ask questions to solve the problem. - Why not? - Is there another problem that is not visible on the surface? - Example - You think less of yourself. - But he fears that those around him will think less of him. - So do your best and do activities that will get you praise. - People around you praise and appreciate you. - However, he/she feels that it is not his/her true self. - I worked hard to create [[masks]], [[paper tigers]], that kind of thing. - Getting praise for it doesn't relieve my anxiety. - I'm afraid [[masking one's true character]] will come off and I'll be disillusioned, I'll be thought of as a [[cheater]]. - Convincing,[[過度に謙遜]]してしまうことに関係ありそう/villagepump/yosider.iconというのも同じようなニュアンスかも/villagepump/inajob.icon /villagepump/inajob.icon - I saw the term [[Expected value control]] somewhere. - [/nishio/expectation-control](https://scrapbox.io/nishio/expectation-control). - [/nishio/not to raise exaggerated expectations](https://scrapbox.io/nishio/not to raise exaggerated expectations). - If your expectations are higher, you may be disillusioned later. - seem relevant - [/nishio/ You don't have to use your power in front of all people](https://scrapbox.io/nishio/ You don't have to use your power in front of all people). - Conceal the limits of your abilities - I realize I'm doing this strategically, but I feel guilty inside. - [/nishio/never exaggerate](https://scrapbox.io/nishio/never exaggerate). - I'm afraid of losing credibility with stupid questions. - I sometimes think of [[Broaden the range of characters]], which is [[Expectation Axis Control]]? - [[I'm not sure where I stand in the community#6375b129774b1700006e5097|6375b129774b1700006e5097]] - > I feel like I'm changing my behavior based on my own deviation in the field in the community./villagepump/inajob.icon - Oh, I'm going in circles if [[I'm going to ask a lot of stupid questions.]] in this vein. - Imposter Syndrome is the feeling that the other person's evaluation of you is off on the right track with respect to expectations and axes of expectation. - To solve this problem, perform [[Expected value control]] and [[Expectation Axis Control]]. - Rarely a match, so must be meticulously maintained. - If you try to control it but can't control it as intended, this becomes a problem. - Do you feel like you want to lower your expectations, but not too low? - A sudden drop would be shocking and scary, so there may be a desire for a gradual drop./villagepump/yosider.icon - [[Downward load of evaluation]] - [[betrayal of expectations]] りたくない/villagepump/yosider.icon - Expected value control] because higher expectations increase the risk of betrayal. - I think there is a difference here.nishio.icon - phenomenon - Assume a situation where Mr. A expects Mr. B to - 'Mr. A subjectively expected Mr. B to perform.' - Mr. B's actual performance was smaller than that." - I don't feel this phenomenon is a "betrayal" in the first place. - Mr. B need not be responsible for Mr. A's subjectivity. - If Mr. B intentionally gives out information in a way that misleads Mr. A's judgment, Mr. B will be held responsible. - So, "[The list of things I did as an observation fact is this. Whether you rate it high or low is your business, not mine. - If Mr. A had verbalized his performance expectations to Mr. B in advance and Mr. B had informed Mr. A that he could achieve them - I think this case is the equivalent of "betrayal."

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