- Paradox of expectation and [reaction
- Title given by GPT4
Some people get angry when others do to them what they did to others. Some people get angry when others don’t do to them what they did to others.
Examples of the latter
- I fawned over my elders when I was younger.
- I expected young people to flirt with me when I was their elder.
- But it didn’t, and I was angry.
That person would describe someone who has friendly relations with young people as “flirting with youth.”
- I judge my relationships with people based on whether they are flirtatious or flirtatious.
Examples of the former
- Say what you think is wrong is wrong, no matter who the other party is.
- When you are told you are “wrong” get angry.
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