Impatience to be late for your ideal self

- I’m not moving ahead as fast as I am in IDEAL. - Gray is Ideal self. - The red arrow is Gap between ideal and reality.

• At this time, impatience and frustration arise when you are late for your ideal self.
  • But it can only be resolved by moving on.

• Sometimes I feel the need to pull people behind me.
  • This is because “being able to pull” brings a sense of security because it is a demonstration that you are ahead of the curve.
• But if you pull someone who lags behind, the law of action-reaction pulls you back.
  • This exacerbates the problem.
    • flood of tsunamis
  • You have to pull people behind when you can afford to.
    • We must wait until the foothold is solid enough not to be dragged.
  • Trying to do more than one thing at a time and failing. - He who runs after two hares will catch neither

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