When Mr. A gives feedback on Mr. B’s behavior, Mr. A is expecting that Mr. B’s behavior will improve in the future. Since there is no consensus on this “good,” even if person A has good intentions, the act is generally more likely to be bad, “changing B to what A thinks is a good state of affairs. If A believes that he/she is doing a good thing and B does not follow advice, anger arises.

relevance - Justice justifies violence. - crime of advising a defendant - lust for power - feeling of having been trained to do something - I don’t expect others to do it.


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