Diary 2023-06-19

from /villagepump/2023/06/19

• The feeling that different families have different relationships with their marriage partners.

  • I told a prospective bride to be that she lost her wedding ring and had to buy a new one, so watch out.
  • My intention was to say, “Be careful not to lose it, because it is easy to lose it when wearing something unfamiliar, and the financial cost of rewriting it is high.
  • I was surprised when others who heard this generated the interpretation, “Did you buy a new one so your wife wouldn’t find out?
    • I imagined this myself, I wonder if it is associated with this because it is a common story (whether it is common or not, I often hear it as a “story”).
    • I thought it was unexpected.
  • I never had the idea to try to hide such a thing.
    • At the point where I couldn’t find it, I reported that I couldn’t find it.
    • I don’t know why you would try to hide the fact that you lost your ring.
    • They think they’ll get caught if they shut up and buy it back.
    • In order not to be found out.
      • Call the ring shop without being noticed.
      • Check availability of rings of the same type as before and pay
      • They’d know it was in the mail, so I pretended to be on another errand to pick it up so they wouldn’t find out.
      • The paper bags and containers will give you away, so go dump them at the station.
      • Even if you make it that far, you’ll probably get caught with “new and completely unscratched”.
    • You don’t know where you lost it in the first place, so it could be in the house, and it could be exposed in a “I’m wearing a ring and I found a ring under the fridge” kind of way.
    • Based on various factors, I don’t know why you think you can fool me.
  • Based on the fact that “I guess what and how far to report varies from household to household,” he said.
  • If I lose it, will I have to buy it back in many cases?
    • If it’s expensive, he’s going to be hesitant.

• Diary 2023-06-18 ← Diary 2023-06-19 → Diary 2023-06-20 100 days ago Diary 2023-03-11. 1 year ago Diary 2022-06-19.

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