Appeal to those who have is poisonous swamp. Half of this is something I talked about in private when I was younger, but I decided to write it down because it has developed in connection with something else at this time and I don’t feel the need to keep it private anymore.

  • When a man with money behaves appeal (to) that he has money, women will come to him for moneyRich Appeal
    • This is seemingly “popular”, some people make this choice to show off that they are “popular” in the mounting competition among menmotivational appeal
    • However, if you think about it a little, you can recognize that the person doing it is also coming to you for the money.
    • A little more thought leads to the perception that “people around me perceive it that way.
    • This is the pool of venom, which does continuous damage to the [mental
    • Information can’t be retracted, so once you start appealing, you can’t quit even if your heart starts to hurt.
    • So, until you meet someone who you think “is not coming to you for money,” you should refrain from such appeals.
    • You only need one of these partners, you don’t need to be popular with a lot of people.
    • Just having one such partner increases self-assurance and leads to mental stability.
  • The reason I suddenly remembered this is because I realized that “authority” is the same for middle-aged men.
    • In other words, if you pretend to have power, people who want to enjoy the benefits of that power will gather around you.
    • This way you look popular.
    • But in the end, the same composition as above causes mental damage due to solitude. - mid-crisis
    • Speaking for myself, I’m not pretending that I have power and I don’t, but I really don’t. lol

Blessed are the have-nots.


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