A well-bred oversight.

If you don’t experience something like well bred person, exquisite and elegant, with a witty sense of humor and a wry sense of humor, you may be left with something something overlooked… I guess…

Doragonsyoten Grave of the Fireflies (Japanese horror movie), that is a well-bred child. That’s why they are so insensitive to the poverty of the aunt’s family and the envy feelings that are directed toward them there. Well-bred people don’t guess other people’s feelings without their permission, and they don’t ask people’s opinions because it’s impolite.

kansu68 > My grandmother was like that. (Cousins of a merchant family in Funamba who fell in defeat in the war)

Doragonsyoten > If you don’t have a good upbringing, an experience like the Kisai Ryutan, you may be missing out on something! …

kansu68 > I think so. From my grandson’s own perspective, he lacked “something” for those around him. (But, on the outside, it was already good, so…) I went by “elegant and kind grandmother” (WW)

Doragonsyoten > As an older woman, a well-bred young lady would have gone through hell if she went out alone, so it’s quite possible that the people around her didn’t allow it. It’s quite conceivable…

kansu68 > If you ask me, … grandmother’s outings were definitely accompanied by someone (mainly my grandfather) I’m not sure if that’s a good thing or not. You must have been worried in many ways…

Doragonsyoten > If a princess walks outside alone, she will soon be ruined by all the men coming up to her. But if she doesn’t have a chance to experience the outside without a guardian, she won’t be able to get “the perspective of someone who can see everything from a holistic point of view”.

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